There are plenty of clichés about second chances – never say never, etc. but the fact is that this is usually true. You’d be amazed by the number of couples who think they’re finished for good but who end up back together stronger than ever, in a week, a month, a year or more.  That’s because the emotions which lead to the breakup are usually much more volatile and momentary than the deep-rooted feelings on which a relationship is based.

Unless something you’ve done was truly unforgivable, which has completely transformed you in the eyes of your ex girlfriend, so that, to her, the person she loved no longer exists, then there’s always a chance getting her back.  Love is a strong and constant emotion – it survives all kinds of punishment because it’s in the nature of love to endure.  You have to look beyond the hurts and painful words – they wouldn’t be used so strongly if not for the strength of the love betrayed.  It’s the bad times she wants erased, not you.

Allow yourself to hope. So how to get my ex girlfriend back? First, ask yourself if you really do want to go back. Be sure that you still loves her and she’s the one you truly love.